She’s a Hit

February 12, 2011 by rhemashope

“I want [her] to believe she is beautiful for as long as she can, before the insecurities of adolescence creep in. And beauty, she knows, comes from the inside and radiates out. She’s always known that. She’s always been that.”
~Alicia, Welcome To My Planet

I know there are a lot of little princess fashionistas out there, but my 4-year old girly girl blows my mind with her eye for flair and strong opinion on style choices. She changes her clothes several times a day and loves all things fancy like her heroine Fancy Nancy. She’s always quick to compliment a stranger on her accessories or hairdo or choice of color.

The girls have been home sick.

To pass the time, Hope and I have been playing ”Hit or Miss” on People.com.

“Hope,” I say, “Hit or miss?”

And she says…

“This is a hit because she’s on an island and she’s the island princess.”

“Miss. Because her legs are sticking out… but I love the color and the hair.”

“Hit. She’s a mermaid.”

(Shakes head sadly). “The shoes are really bad. Don’t ever get those shoes, Mom.”

(Sigh.) “A total, total miss.”

“Hit! Pretty princess dress! But why did they put those branches on it???”

“Miss. She’s wearing a towel. But I like the necklace.”

“I LOVE this dress. I! love! it!”

But I think I’ve got something on those Hollywood stars. When I’m in need a dose of confidence or I’ve got an important work meeting or date with her father, I ask her. ”How do I look, Hope?”

I thank God for giving me the simple joy of having a little girl who believes I’m pretty. She closes her eyes for a moment, a big smile fills her face, she raises her arms in triumph and declares me, “Perfect.”

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on February 12, 2011 at 9:46 am | Reply blackknightsbrood

Totally.

Now, all we need is one of those swan numbers for you. And a picture.

(I loved the purple dress that got thumbs down for legs sticking out!!)
on February 12, 2011 at 11:17 am | Reply Lydia

Sigh. Want to share that precious one with me? I really need some confidence these days…
on February 12, 2011 at 12:23 pm | Reply Brenda (mamabegood)

Hey! I play a similar game with Jack! Wooshy? Or not wooshy? Sometimes legs sticking out get a thumbs up. Sometimes not.
on February 12, 2011 at 2:14 pm | Reply Shivon

love this so much
on February 12, 2011 at 2:38 pm | Reply Christy@The a-word

So sweet. Love the “mermaid.”
on February 12, 2011 at 2:50 pm | Reply Boy Wonder's Mom

Her and the Diva need a playdate. And Jeneil, you are sublimely perfect. Perfection personified.

Hope the girls are feeling better.

Love ya,

Jersey
on February 12, 2011 at 4:55 pm | Reply lisbet

Awesome

She has pretty solid taste already. I have never had any taste, so maybe she can be my personal stylist in a few years when it’s legal for her to have a job
on February 12, 2011 at 7:50 pm | Reply Kerrie

what a sweet, sweet girl you have there.
on February 13, 2011 at 1:15 am | Reply Stimey

I ADORE this post. I would never have looked at those outfits with her eyes. I am so glad you shared her opinions with us, because I think it is better than ANY best/worst list. What a sweetheart!
on February 13, 2011 at 9:00 am | Reply akbutler

beautiful! my son said she looked like a “prince” (we’re still working on gender appropriate nouns here )
on February 13, 2011 at 10:18 am | Reply Autismville

I totally want to hang out with her¡
on February 14, 2011 at 12:37 pm | Reply cha

love it! she is a smart one.

um, can i skype with her every morning and/or before i go out ever?

xo
on February 15, 2011 at 7:26 am | Reply Deb

This is awesome!!! Love it.
on February 15, 2011 at 6:28 pm | Reply g

Delightfully delicious post!
on February 19, 2011 at 12:58 pm | Reply Michelle O'Neil

Love her. What a doll.
on February 24, 2011 at 7:29 am | Reply Shannon Ervin

Awesome!!
on February 24, 2011 at 4:13 pm | Reply elaine @ peace for the journey

Glad my pics aren’t up for review. I shudder to think of the fashion blunders I’ve made over the years. Thankfully, I’ve reached the age when I worry less about such things.

Darling, princess daughter! Mine is a complete tomboy, so we’ve never had a need for princess dress-up or barbies. Part of me wishes it for her, but mostly I’m glad she’s her own gal, marking her own course… basketball and all!

peace~elaine
on March 9, 2011 at 4:33 pm | Reply Sheavoynne

Precious! Just precious.

Please God let Nylis be her prince charming !
on March 16, 2011 at 2:18 am | Reply Mary

This definitely brought a smile to my face!

I got to say, your little girl’s commentary definitely beats Joan Rivers on Fashion Police any day!